{"id":22058,"date":"2024-05-25T10:18:00","date_gmt":"2024-05-25T07:18:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/?p=22058"},"modified":"2024-08-25T10:28:21","modified_gmt":"2024-08-25T07:28:21","slug":"klaipediske-pasakiau-kad-esu-homoseksuali-ir-nieko-nenutiko","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/lt\/klaipediske-pasakiau-kad-esu-homoseksuali-ir-nieko-nenutiko\/","title":{"rendered":"Klaip\u0117di\u0161k\u0117: \u201ePasakiau, kad esu homoseksuali, ir nieko nenutiko\u201c"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Gyventi savo gyvenim\u0105<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eKiek save pamenu, visada buvau smalsi\u201c, \u2013 nusi\u0161ypso Renata, paklausta, kas \u012fkv\u0117p\u0117 pasirinkti psicholog\u0117s karjer\u0105. Jau ankstyvoje vaikyst\u0117je, n\u0117 ne\u017einodama, k\u0105 tiksliai veikia psichologai, kokia j\u0173 darbo specifika, svajojo apie \u0161i\u0105 profesij\u0105. O su\u017einojusi, kad psichologijos \u017einios padeda suprasti \u017emoni\u0173 elgesio motyvus, veiksm\u0173 logik\u0105 ir pa\u017einti siel\u0105, dar labiau u\u017esideg\u0117 noru studijuoti psichologij\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Psichologijos \u017einios vis\u0173 pirma pad\u0117jo pa\u017einti pa\u010di\u0105 save. \u201eMan visada buvo \u012fdomu, kiek i\u0161 ties\u0173 galime gyventi savo gyvenim\u0105, kai labai daug dalyk\u0173 lemia aukl\u0117jimas. Kai \u012fgijau psichologijos \u017eini\u0173, su\u017eav\u0117jo supratimas, kad ne visk\u0105 sprend\u017eiame patys, kad daug dalyk\u0173 yra nuspr\u0119sti u\u017e mus. O a\u0161 nor\u0117jau gyventi savo gyvenim\u0105, su savo nuostatomis, ir \u017einoti, kad net jei darau pa\u010di\u0105 did\u017eiausi\u0105 kvailyst\u0119, tai darau j\u0105 pasirinkdama pati, o ne d\u0117l vaikyst\u0117s traum\u0173 ar patir\u010di\u0173. U\u017etruko, kol supratau, kurios mintys ir nuostatos tikrai mano, o ne \u012fdiegtos t\u0117v\u0173, seneli\u0173 ar kit\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173. Bet \u0161iandien tvirtai \u017einau, kad gyvenu savo gyvenim\u0105\u201c, \u2013 pasakoja ji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-opt-id=1684985273  fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:683\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/r5-2167.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-22062\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:683\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/r5-2167-scaled.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:300\/h:200\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/r5-2167-scaled.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:768\/h:512\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/r5-2167-scaled.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1536\/h:1024\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/r5-2167-scaled.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1619\/h:1080\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/r5-2167-scaled.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption>Psichologijos \u017einios vis\u0173 pirma pad\u0117jo pa\u017einti pa\u010di\u0105 save. \/ M. Baranausko nuotr.<br><br><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Tikslas \u2013 pa\u017einti ne tik kitus<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Renata sako, kad tai mokslas, kuriame reikia nuolat tobul\u0117ti, siekti ne tik profesini\u0173 \u017eini\u0173, bet ir gilesnio sav\u0119s pa\u017einimo. \u201ePsichologai taip pat lankosi pas psichologus, nes jei tur\u0117t\u0173 ne\u012fveikt\u0173 traum\u0173, negal\u0117t\u0173 pad\u0117ti savo klientams. Naujausia pamoka, kuri\u0105 i\u0161mokau lankydama terapij\u0105, kad kiekvienas \u017emogus gyvena tok\u012f gyvenim\u0105, kokio nori. B\u016bdama penkiolikos, \u012fsivaizdavau, kaip atrodys mano gyvenimas, kai b\u016bsiu 35-eri\u0173. \u0160iandienis mano gyvenimas labai skiriasi nuo to \u012fsivaizdavimo, nes jis r\u0117m\u0117si penkiolikmet\u0117s patirtimi. Bet kai sulyginu tai, k\u0105 \u012fsivaizdavau, su tuo, kaip viskas yra \u0161iandien, suprantu, kad, nepaisant skirtum\u0173, gyvenu taip, kaip anuomet ir tik\u0117jausi gyvensianti. O \u0161is supratimas atne\u0161a palengv\u0117jim\u0105\u201c, \u2013 sako Renata.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jei visgi tekt\u0173 keisti profesij\u0105, ji rinkt\u0173si interjero dizain\u0105 arba nor\u0117t\u0173 tapti dailininke: nuo vaikyst\u0117s m\u0117gsta pie\u0161ti, tapybai skiria laiko ir dabar, o kartais atsidariusi mobili\u0105j\u0105 program\u0117l\u0119 kuria nam\u0173 interjer\u0105. \u201eBet nemanau, kad pasauliui kada nors nebereik\u0117s psicholog\u0173, o man, steb\u0117tojai, \u0161is darbas yra tobulas. Juk d\u0117l psichologijos perpratau net matematik\u0105 \u2013 mokykloje \u0161ios disciplinos nem\u0117gau, o studijuojant reik\u0117jo auk\u0161tosios matematikos\u201c, \u2013 priduria ji.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Esminiai \u017emoni\u0173 poreikiai \u2013 pana\u0161\u016bs&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nors neslepia savo homoseksualumo, o internete neretai mato u\u017eklausas, kad ie\u0161komas LGBTQ+ bendruomenei draugi\u0161kas psichologas, besikreipian\u010di\u0173 vienaly\u010di\u0173 por\u0173 sako sulaukianti nedaug \u2013 iki de\u0161imties per metus. Ta\u010diau turima praktika rodo, kad ir vienaly\u010di\u0173, ir skirtingos lyties por\u0173 problemos \u2013 pana\u0161ios.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eVisuomen\u0117je bandoma \u012fteigti mint\u012f, kad vienalyt\u0117s poros ka\u017ekuo kitokios. Ta\u010diau \u017emoni\u0173, kaip homo sapiens atstov\u0173, poreikiai absoliu\u010diai vienodi. Apie kok\u012f santyk\u012f kalb\u0117tume \u2013 poros, \u0161eimos, draug\u0173, darbo \u2013 mes ie\u0161kome t\u0173 pa\u010di\u0173 dalyk\u0173: saugumo, bendrumo, palaikymo, artumo. Visi\u0161kai nesvarbu, ar esi homoseksualus, ar heteroseksualus, juodaodis ar baltaodis, krik\u0161\u010dionis ar musulmonas \u2013 vis\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 poreikiai vienodi\u201c, \u2013 sako Renata ir priduria, kad vienintelis skirtumas, kuris atsiskleid\u017eia tarp heteroseksuali\u0173 ir homoseksuali\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 \u2013 kaip pristatyti savo partner\u012f t\u0117vams. Heteroseksualias poras neramina, kad t\u0117vams gali nepatikti partnerio i\u0161silavinimas ar darbas, netenkinti u\u017edirbamos pajamos, o vienalyt\u0117s poros \u0161ias baimes stumteli \u012f \u0161on\u0105 ir pirmiausia nerimauja, kaip artimiesiems pasakyti, kad j\u0173 partneris \u2013 tos pa\u010dios lyties.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eBeje, \u2013 priduria pa\u0161nekov\u0117, \u2013 man kiek keistai skamba skelbimai, kad ie\u0161komas LGBTQ+ draugi\u0161kas psichologas \u2013 juk psichologo profesija \u012fpareigoja, psichologai ir psichoterapeutai mokosi suprasti \u017emoni\u0173 \u012fvairov\u0119, \u017emogaus patiriam\u0105 kan\u010di\u0173 ir d\u017eiaugsm\u0173 spektr\u0105.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-opt-id=703497978  fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:683\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/r5-2230.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-22068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:683\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/r5-2230-scaled.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:300\/h:200\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/r5-2230-scaled.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:768\/h:512\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/r5-2230-scaled.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1536\/h:1025\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/r5-2230-scaled.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1619\/h:1080\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/r5-2230-scaled.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption>\u201eApie kok\u012f santyk\u012f kalb\u0117tume \u2013 poros, \u0161eimos, draug\u0173, darbo \u2013 mes ie\u0161kome t\u0173 pa\u010di\u0173 dalyk\u0173: saugumo, bendrumo, palaikymo, artumo\u201c, \u2013 \u012fsitikinusi Renata. \/ M. Baranausko nuotr.<br><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u201ePasakiau, ir nieko nenutiko\u201c<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u017dvelgdama \u012f praeit\u012f, Renata pasakoja jau vaikyst\u0117je jautusi, kad yra homoseksuali, bet stiprus visuomen\u0117s spaudimas trukd\u0117 vie\u0161ai atsiskleisti. Pirm\u0105 kart\u0105 apie seksualin\u0119 orientacij\u0105 papasakojo studij\u0173 bi\u010diulei. Tuo metu Renatai buvo 21-i. \u201ePasakiau jai, kad esu homoseksuali, ir nieko nenutiko, ugnikalniai nei\u0161siver\u017e\u0117. Bet kartu \u012fvyko labai daug \u2013 supratau, kad buvimas homoseksualia apie mane nepasako nieko ypatingo\u201c, \u2013 pamena ji, pridurdama, kad dr\u0105sos t\u0105syk visgi reik\u0117jo.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eTies\u0105 sakant, nesuprantu tokio dalyko kaip atsiskleidimas, ir man net kiek keista kam nors sakyti, kad esu homoseksuali. Tarsi saky\u010diau, kad esu baltaod\u0117. Man tai taip nat\u016bralu, ir manau, kad \u017emon\u0117s netur\u0117t\u0173 bijoti kalb\u0117ti apie savo orientacij\u0105. Kolegoms irgi niekada nesu i\u0161tarusi \u017eod\u017ei\u0173 \u201ea\u0161 homoseksuali\u201c, ta\u010diau to neslepiu, ir i\u0161 to, kaip kalbu apie save, k\u0105 pasakoju, jie supranta\u201c, \u2013 Renata nor\u0117t\u0173, kad pagaliau i\u0161nykt\u0173 stigma, kuri tarsi nurodo, kad pirmiausia privalai pasipasakoti apie savo seksualin\u0119 orientacij\u0105, ir tik tada, jei tave priima, gali laisvai kalb\u0117ti apie kasdienio gyvenimo dalykus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Dialogas su savimi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Su Renata pirmiausia pasikalbame nuotoliu, o v\u0117liau susitinkame Klaip\u0117doje. Pakvietusi pasivaik\u0161\u010dioti po mi\u0161k\u0105, ji pasakoja, kad Klaip\u0117da tam tikra prasme negyvas miestas \u2013 \u010dia ma\u017eai spalv\u0173, veikl\u0173 jaunimui. Kita vertus, \u0161is miestas jai labai artimas, nes jame randa l\u0117t\u0105 buvim\u0105, tyl\u0105 ir ramyb\u0119, mieste daug urbanizacijos nepaliest\u0173 gamtos kampeli\u0173, o gamt\u0105 ji labai m\u0117gsta. \u201ePsichoterapeutas Karlas Gustavas Jungas yra sak\u0119s, kad \u017emogus bent dviem savait\u0117ms per metus tur\u0117t\u0173 gr\u012f\u017eti \u012f gamt\u0105, pagyventi gamtoje. A\u0161 taip nedarau, bet laisvalaikiu labai m\u0117gstu i\u0161va\u017eiuoti \u012f gamt\u0105, pasivaik\u0161\u010dioti\u201c, \u2013 Renata sako prisiri\u0161anti prie viet\u0173, yra prisiri\u0161usi ir prie Klaip\u0117dos, ir jokiame kitame mieste sav\u0119s ne\u012fsivaizduoja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ji save vadina vieni\u0161e. \u201ePer atostogas, jei jos ilgesn\u0117s, atsiriboju nuo \u017emoni\u0173, neskambinu, pra\u0161au, kad ir man niekas neskambint\u0173, neatra\u0161au \u012f lai\u0161kus. I\u0161einu \u012f visi\u0161k\u0105 izoliacij\u0105. Man reikia tylos, vienatv\u0117s, nes joje \u012feinu \u012f dialog\u0105 su savimi\u201c, \u2013 tyla, vidinis dialogas ir vienatv\u0117, sako ji, padeda inventorizuoti mintis, jausmus ir elges\u012f, atpa\u017einti negatyvias, kenksmingas nuostatas, o tada, tarsi atgimus, galima gr\u012f\u017eti ir v\u0117l dirbti su \u017emon\u0117mis. Klaip\u0117da yra laisv\u0117s miestas, sako Renata, o laisv\u0117 jai \u2013 viena i\u0161 pamatini\u0173 vertybi\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><em><br>\u0160is darbas parengtas Bendra.lt \u012fgyvendinant Europos S\u0105jungos\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.goethe.de\/prj\/per\/en\/index.html\">PERSPECTIVES<\/a>\u00a0projekt\u0105.\u00a0<br><br>Darbas i\u0161 dalies finansuojamas Europos S\u0105jungos. I\u0161sakyti po\u017ei\u016briai ir nuomon\u0117s yra tik autoriaus (-i\u0173) ir neb\u016btinai atspindi Europos S\u0105jungos ar Europos Komisijos po\u017ei\u016br\u012f ir pozicij\u0105. Nei Europos S\u0105junga, nei pagalb\u0105 teikianti institucija negali b\u016bti laikomos atsakingomis.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img data-opt-id=806261960  fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:auto\/h:auto\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/perspectives-logo.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21822\" width=\"391\" height=\"69\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:782\/h:138\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/perspectives-logo.png 782w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:300\/h:53\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/perspectives-logo.png 300w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:768\/h:136\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/perspectives-logo.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 391px) 100vw, 391px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Klaip\u0117di\u0161k\u0117 psicholog\u0117, por\u0173 terapeut\u0117 Renata sako, kad \u017eod\u017eiai \u201ea\u0161 esu homoseksuali\u201c jai skamba taip pat, kaip \u201ea\u0161 esu baltaod\u0117\u201c. Jos teigimu, pa\u017eangioje, stereotip\u0173 nekaustomoje visuomen\u0117je seksualin\u0117s orientacijos atskleidimas netur\u0117t\u0173 b\u016bti suvokiamas kaip ypatingas \u012fvykis, galintis pakeisti ir atsiskleidusiojo, ir aplinkini\u0173 gyvenimus. \u201ePirmas \u017emogus, kuriam pasakiau, buvo mano grupiok\u0117. Pasakiau jai, ir nieko nenutiko, ugnikalniai nei\u0161siver\u017e\u0117\u201c, \u2013 nusijuokia ji. 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