{"id":21833,"date":"2024-02-14T01:01:00","date_gmt":"2024-02-13T23:01:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/?p=21833"},"modified":"2024-08-25T01:20:39","modified_gmt":"2024-08-24T22:20:39","slug":"meile-neturi-lyties-bet-isimyleje-vyrai-viesumoje-bijo-susikibti-rankomis","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/lt\/meile-neturi-lyties-bet-isimyleje-vyrai-viesumoje-bijo-susikibti-rankomis\/","title":{"rendered":"Meil\u0117 neturi lyties, bet \u012fsimyl\u0117j\u0119 vyrai vie\u0161umoje bijo susikibti rankomis"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><strong>Pa\u017eintis \u2013 internete&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Retame regione rastume erdv\u0119, kur homoseksual\u016bs \u017emon\u0117s gal\u0117t\u0173 laisvai megzti pa\u017eintis. N\u0117ra tokios vietos nei Arijaus gimtuosiuose Raseiniuose, nei Tado gimtuosiuose K\u0117dainiuose, tod\u0117l, kaip ir daug kit\u0173 vienaly\u010di\u0173 por\u0173, jiedu susipa\u017eino internete.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201ePara\u0161iau Arijui \u017einut\u0119, susitikome. I\u0161g\u0117r\u0117me kartu kavos, labai daug bendravome. Paskui susitikome dar kart\u0105 ir nebesiskyr\u0117me\u201c, \u2013 2021-\u0173j\u0173 kov\u0105 prasid\u0117jusi\u0105 pa\u017eint\u012f mena Tadas. Jie abu m\u0117gsta bendrauti, leistis \u012f gilias diskusijas jiems svarbiomis temomis. Bendra pasaul\u0117\u017ei\u016bra, pom\u0117giai, d\u0117mesys toms pa\u010dioms problemoms juos ir suartino. Arij\u0173 ypa\u010d su\u017eav\u0117jo Tado u\u017esispyrimas, ry\u017etas, o Tad\u0105 \u2013 Arijaus nuo\u0161irdumas, \u012f\u017evalgumas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Arijui tai \u2013 antrieji santykiai, bet pirmuosius vadina labiau pamokomis, o ne santykiais, Tadas yra tur\u0117j\u0119s daugiau draugys\u010di\u0173, bet \u0161i \u2013 pirmoji, trunkanti tiek laiko. Abu yra draugav\u0119 su merginomis, tod\u0117l nedvejodami atsako teigiantiems, es\u0105 galima pasirinkti, kuri lytis tave trauks: \u201ePradedi \u017eav\u0117tis \u017emogumi, jis tampa tau gra\u017eus, vystosi gilesn\u0117 trauka. Neb\u016bna taip, kad nubundi ryte ir sakai: \u0161iandien b\u016bsiu homoseksualus\u201c, \u2013 vienas kit\u0105 papildydami kalba \u0161iuo metu Raseiniuose gyvenantys vyrai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-opt-id=1829908750  fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:683\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/pagr.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21838\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:683\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/pagr.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:300\/h:200\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/pagr.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:768\/h:512\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/pagr.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1536\/h:1024\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/pagr.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1620\/h:1080\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/pagr.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption>Arij\u0173 ir Tad\u0105 suartino bendra pasaul\u0117\u017ei\u016bra, pom\u0117giai, d\u0117mesys toms pa\u010dioms problemoms. \/ Andriejaus Rad\u010denko nuotr.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sl\u0117pdamasis viduje mir\u0161ti<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kad galb\u016bt yra homoseksualus, Arijus \u0117m\u0117 m\u0105styti b\u016bdamas 13\u201314 met\u0173, Tadas \u2013 kiek anks\u010diau \u2013 12\u201313 met\u0173. Neslepia, kad abiem buvo sunku priimti savo tapatyb\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eGyvenant tokioje visuomen\u0117je kaip m\u016bs\u0173, labai sunku save tinkamai priimti. Gars\u016bs pasisakymai, paty\u010dios mokykloje neleid\u017eia jaustis laisvam. O bijodamas reakcij\u0173, u\u017egauliojim\u0173 ir sl\u0117pdamasis tu viduje mir\u0161ti. I\u0161gyvenau didel\u0119 vidin\u0119 kov\u0105. Nor\u0117jau b\u016bti atviras, pasikalb\u0117ti, i\u0161lieti \u0161ird\u012f, bet ne\u017einojau, kuo galiu pasitik\u0117ti, kiekvienas \u017emogus atrod\u0117 kaip potencialus naujien\u0173 nutekintojas. D\u0117l \u0161ios paslapties buvau vieni\u0161as, atsiriboj\u0119s\u201c, \u2013 pasakoja Tadas, paty\u010dias patyr\u0119s ir d\u0117l to, kad augo vaik\u0173 namuose. Prabilti apie homoseksualum\u0105 jis i\u0161dr\u012fso tik i\u0161\u0117j\u0119s i\u0161 vaik\u0173 nam\u0173 ir prad\u0117j\u0119s gyventi savaranki\u0161kai.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jam antrina Arijus: \u201eBuvo labai daug baimi\u0173, jas sustiprino tai, kad mokykloje ma\u010diau, kaip ty\u010diojasi i\u0161 kito homoseksualaus vaikino. Tad band\u017eiau u\u017esimaskuoti, sl\u0117pti savo tapatyb\u0119. Kur\u012f laik\u0105 pats sau neigiau, kad man patinka vaikinai.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>ES pagrindini\u0173 teisi\u0173 agent\u016bros (FRA) 2020 m. pristatytas tyrimas apie LGBTQ+ \u017emoni\u0173 pad\u0117t\u012f atskleid\u0117, kad Lietuvoje tik 4 proc. apklaust\u0173j\u0173 LGBTQ+ bendruomen\u0117s nari\u0173 mokykloje yra visi\u0161kai atviri apie savo seksualin\u0119 tapatyb\u0119. 37 proc. tvirtina esantys selektyviai atviri, o 59 proc. tai laiko paslaptyje.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><strong>\u201eBijodamas reakcij\u0173, u\u017egauliojim\u0173 ir sl\u0117pdamasis tu viduje mir\u0161ti. I\u0161gyvenau didel\u0119 vidin\u0119 kov\u0105. Nor\u0117jau b\u016bti atviras, pasikalb\u0117ti, i\u0161lieti \u0161ird\u012f, bet ne\u017einojau, kuo galiu pasitik\u0117ti, kiekvienas \u017emogus atrod\u0117 kaip potencialus naujien\u0173 nutekintojas. D\u0117l \u0161ios paslapties buvau vieni\u0161as, atsiriboj\u0119s\u201c, \u2013 pasakoja Tadas.<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Atvirumas gali kainuoti visk\u0105<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tadui ir Arijui skaudu, kad \u017emon\u0117s, su kuriais bendravo iki atskleisdami savo orientacij\u0105, nuo j\u0173 nusigr\u0119\u017e\u0117. Pa\u0161nekovai sako pastebintys, kad aplinkiniai homoseksualius asmenis tarsi nustumia \u012f para\u0161tes, \u017ei\u016bri \u012f juos kaip \u012f niek\u0105.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tadas tur\u0117jo labai artim\u0105 ry\u0161\u012f su teta, bet atsiskleidus bendravimas nutr\u016bko. Arij\u0173 po atsiskleidimo palaiko mama, bet nusigr\u0119\u017e\u0117 broliai ir ses\u0117s, d\u0117d\u0117s, tetos. Atstumtas seser\u0173 ir broli\u0173, jis tur\u0117jo i\u0161sikraustyti i\u0161 nam\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-opt-id=1038806313  fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:576\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika3.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21841\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:576\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika3.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:300\/h:169\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika3.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:768\/h:432\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika3.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1536\/h:864\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika3.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1920\/h:1080\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika3.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption>FRA tyrimo duomenys. BENDRA.lt<br><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Visai kitaip Tad\u0105 pri\u0117m\u0117 bendradarbiai kariuomen\u0117je. Jis ilg\u0105 laik\u0105 bijojo atsiskleisti, nes ne\u017einojo, kaip \u012f tai reaguos kiti, bet atsiskleidus palengv\u0117jo. Pri\u0117m\u0117 j\u012f ir broliai bei ses\u0117s. Pora turi draug\u0173, \u017einan\u010di\u0173 apie j\u0173 tapatyb\u0119. Atsiskleidus, sako Tadas ir Arijus, kur kas lengviau.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Turi ir toki\u0173 draug\u0173, kurie apie j\u0173 santykius ir seksualin\u0119 orientacij\u0105 ne\u017eino. Su jais bendrauti kur kas sunkiau \u2013 baisu nei\u0161siduoti, nes ne\u017einia, kaip reaguos. Tadas pripa\u017e\u012fsta, kad nesijau\u010dia lygiavertis su heteroseksualiais \u017emon\u0117mis, o Arijus priduria, kad dar ir \u0161iandien jau\u010dia paty\u010di\u0173 ir priekabi\u0173 baim\u0119.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eB\u016bdami mieste, mes negalime jaustis laisvai. Negalime \u0161il\u010diau bendrauti ar paimti vienas kito u\u017e rankos. Negalime jaustis savimi\u201c, \u2013 sako Arijus. Juos d\u017eiugina, kad Lietuvoje jau vyksta \u0161ioks toks pokytis, \u017emon\u0117s tampa toleranti\u0161kesni, ta\u010diau tokiuose nedideliuose miestuose kaip Raseiniai, mano jie, situacija dar negreitai pasikeis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-opt-id=1991285104  fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:576\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika2.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21844\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:576\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika2.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:300\/h:169\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika2.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:768\/h:432\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika2.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1536\/h:864\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika2.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1920\/h:1080\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika2.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption><meta charset=\"utf-8\">FRA tyrimo duomenys. BENDRA.lt<br><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Planuoja vestuves<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Netrukus po draugyst\u0117s prad\u017eios vyrai susi\u017ead\u0117jo. \u201eTadas nor\u0117jo vaik\u0173, pirkti nam\u0105, susi\u017ead\u0117ti. Pagalvojau, kad bent \u0161\u012f t\u0105 jam i\u0161pildyti galiu. Nupirkau \u017eied\u0105, g\u0117li\u0173 ir pasipir\u0161au. O po kurio laiko ir Tadas man pasipir\u0161o. Pamenu, s\u0117dime automobilyje, lyg ir tur\u0117tume va\u017eiuoti, bet stovime vietoje. Staiga Tadas atsisuka ir sako: \u201eTai ar b\u016bsi?\u201c \u2013 su \u0161ypsena pasakoja Arijus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Abu savo Facebook paskyrose pa\u017eym\u0117jo status\u0105 \u201eSusi\u017ead\u0117j\u0119\u201c, tik nenurod\u0117, su kuo. Po statuso pakeitimo \u012fra\u0161u netruko atsirasti klausimas, \u012fskaudin\u0119s abu: \u201eKas ta laimingoji?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eVie\u0161ai paskelbti, kad susi\u017ead\u0117jai su vyru, labai sunku \u2013 atsirast\u0173 daug neigiam\u0173 komentar\u0173 ir apkalb\u0173, b\u016bt\u0173 sunku i\u0161k\u0119sti tokius dalykus. Bet greitu metu paskelbsime. Palaikome vienas kit\u0105, u\u017etenka bijoti\u201c, \u2013 svarsto Arijus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>\u201eB\u016bdami mieste, mes negalime jaustis laisvai. Negalime \u0161il\u010diau bendrauti ar paimti vienas kito u\u017e rankos. Negalime jaustis savimi\u201c, \u2013 sako Arijus.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Pora jau m\u0105sto ir apie vestuves. Yra nutar\u0119 santuok\u0105 oficialiai \u012fteisinti u\u017esienyje, o Lietuvoje surengti \u0161vent\u0119 artimiausiems draugams. \u201eDeja, Lietuvoje santuoka suprantama kaip heteroseksuali\u0173 por\u0173 privilegija. Gaila, kad politikai snaud\u017eia, o valstyb\u0117 ir jos \u017emon\u0117s m\u016bs\u0173 nepriima kaip lygiaver\u010di\u0173 pilie\u010di\u0173. Stringa ir Civilin\u0117s s\u0105jungos \u012fstatymas. O juk tai b\u016bt\u0173 bent \u0161iokia tokia forma \u012fteisinti m\u016bs\u0173 ry\u0161\u012f. Esame tokie patys kaip visi, mokame mokes\u010dius, r\u016bpinam\u0117s valstybe, tod\u0117l li\u016bdna, kad turime ma\u017eiau teisi\u0173\u201c, \u2013 apmaudo neslepia Tadas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-opt-id=57657043  decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:683\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft4-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21847\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:683\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft4-1.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:300\/h:200\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft4-1.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:768\/h:512\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft4-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1536\/h:1024\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft4-1.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1620\/h:1080\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft4-1.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption>Pora apgailestauja, kad Lietuvoje \u0161iuo metu negali \u012fteisinti savo santyki\u0173. \/ Andriejaus Rad\u010denko nuotr.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>ILGA-EUROPE (International Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Association) renka duomenis apie LGBTQ+ bendruomen\u0117s pad\u0117t\u012f Europoje ir pastebi, kad Lietuva u\u017eima<a href=\"https:\/\/www.ilga-europe.org\/report\/rainbow-europe-2023\/\">&nbsp;36-\u0105j\u0105 viet\u0105 pagal LGBTQ+ teisin\u0119 pad\u0117t\u012f<\/a>. Mus lenkia Vengrija ir net \u012f Europos S\u0105jung\u0105 nepatenkan\u010dios valstyb\u0117s \u2013 Albanija, Bosnija ir Hercegovina, Moldova, Serbija.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Abu vaikinai svajoja ir apie vaikus. Vaik\u0173 namuose aug\u0119s Tadas \u012fsitikin\u0119s: vaikai b\u016bt\u0173 laimingesni augdami vienaly\u010di\u0173 asmen\u0173 \u0161eimoje nei institucijoje. Jam pritaria ir \u0161eimos atst\u016bmim\u0105 patyr\u0119s Arijus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Laisvalaik\u012f skiria \u0161vietimui<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eKeliam\u0117s 5 arba 6 valand\u0105, atsigeriame kavos ar arbatos, pusry\u010diaujame. Paskui Tadas i\u0161vyksta \u012f darb\u0105, a\u0161 lieku namuose. Laik\u0105 skiriu mokytis, tvarkytis. Tadas namo gr\u012f\u017eta vakare, \u010dia jo jau laukia vakarien\u0117\u201c, \u2013 apie kasdienyb\u0119 pasakoja Arijus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Abu pasisako u\u017e ly\u010di\u0173 lygyb\u0119, tad neskirsto darb\u0173 \u012f vyri\u0161kus ir moteri\u0161kus. \u201eYra tik darbai, kuriuos reikia padaryti. Jei Arijus i\u0161\u0161luoja grindis, a\u0161 i\u0161plaunu. Jei Arijus \u0161i\u0105 savait\u0119 padaro ka\u017ekok\u012f buities darb\u0105, kit\u0105 savait\u0119 j\u012f padarysiu a\u0161\u201c, \u2013 kalb\u0105 t\u0119sia Tadas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large is-resized\"><img data-opt-id=789550903  decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:683\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft2.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21850\" width=\"840\" height=\"560\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:683\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft2.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:300\/h:200\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft2.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:768\/h:512\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft2.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1536\/h:1024\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft2.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1620\/h:1080\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft2.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 840px) 100vw, 840px\" \/><figcaption>Tadas \u0161iuo metu dirba kariuomen\u0117je ir studijuoja. \/ Andriejaus Rad\u010denko nuotr.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Vakarus ir savaitgalius skiria asmeniniam tobul\u0117jimui, laikui kartu, susitikimams su draugais, pasivaik\u0161\u010diojimams ir kelion\u0117ms. Taip pat jiems labai svarbu d\u0117mesys visuomen\u0117s \u0161vietimui, tod\u0117l tur\u0117dami laisvo laiko keliauja \u012f vietines mokyklas, jaunimo centrus, kur skaito paskaitas apie lyti\u0161kum\u0105, seksualin\u0119 orientacij\u0105.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Paklausti, koki\u0105 \u017einut\u0119 nor\u0117t\u0173 perduoti jauniems dar neatsiskleidusiems \u017emon\u0117ms, pataria susikurti toki\u0105 aplink\u0105, kurioje nebijotum b\u016bti savimi, dr\u0105siai \u017evelgti baim\u0117ms \u012f akis, atrasti vidin\u0119 ramyb\u0119, neskub\u0117ti atsiskleisti, kol dar pats su savimi nesijauti patogiai ir u\u017etikrintai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eYra vyr\u0173, kurie, nors turi \u017emonas, vaik\u0173, va\u017eiuoja linksmintis ir myl\u0117tis su kitais vyrais. Linkiu jiems apsispr\u0119sti, b\u016bti atviriems, negyventi \u201ei\u0161 reikalo\u201c, nes tokiu elgesiu tik skaudina artimuosius. Neapgaudin\u0117kite moter\u0173, elkit\u0117s teisingai\u201c, \u2013 priduria Tadas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-opt-id=1300241649  decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:683\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21853\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:683\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft1.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:300\/h:200\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft1.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:768\/h:512\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1536\/h:1024\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft1.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1620\/h:1080\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/ft1.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption>Tadas ir Arijus neslepia: dar ir dabar jau\u010dia paty\u010di\u0173 ir priekabi\u0173 baim\u0119. \/ Andriejaus Rad\u010denko nuotr.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Vyr\u0173 poros toleruojamos ma\u017eiau<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Psicholog\u0117 Gryt\u0117 Ruzg\u0117 pasakoja, kad LGBTQ+ asmenys ne\u0161a nema\u017e\u0105 papildom\u0105 emocin\u012f kr\u016bv\u012f d\u0117l savo tapatyb\u0117s, kuris dar vadinamas ma\u017eumos stresu. \u012e ma\u017eumos stres\u0105 sutelpa daug \u012fvairi\u0173 jausm\u0173 ir i\u0161gyvenim\u0173, vienas da\u017eniausi\u0173 \u2013 g\u0117da.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eG\u0117da \u2013 nat\u016braliai kylantis jausmas, kai ka\u017ekur nepritampame, esame kitokie, ka\u017ek\u0105 darome ne taip, kaip \u012fprasta ir priimtina. \u0160i g\u0117da da\u017enai i\u0161siple\u010dia ir apima ne tik tapatyb\u0119: \u017emogus patiki, kad jis visas yra nepriimtinas, tampa sunku priimti ir pa\u010diam save. Su tuo susijusi ir paslapties dilema, kuri lydi kiekvien\u0105 LGBTQ+ \u017emog\u0173\u201c, \u2013 kalba G. Ruzg\u0117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Psicholog\u0117 sako, kad d\u0117l paslapties ir galimo ar esamo atst\u016bmimo neretai atsiranda didelis vieni\u0161umo jausmas, kai net i\u0161 pa\u017ei\u016bros turintis draug\u0173 \u017emogus jau\u010diasi labai vieni\u0161as, nes negali b\u016bti savimi. Pasak specialist\u0117s, homoseksual\u016bs vyrai ir moterys i\u0161gyvena pana\u0161ius jausmus, ta\u010diau moter\u0173 poros visuomen\u0117je toleruojamos \u0161iek tiek geriau, tod\u0117l homoseksual\u016bs vyrai gali jausti dar daugiau nerimo ir baim\u0117s susidurti su smurtu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img data-opt-id=1370351804  decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:576\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika3-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21856\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1024\/h:576\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika3-1.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:300\/h:169\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika3-1.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:768\/h:432\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika3-1.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1536\/h:864\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika3-1.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:1920\/h:1080\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/statistika3-1.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption><meta charset=\"utf-8\">FRA tyrimo duomenys. BENDRA.lt<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Seimo narys: gyvename Marijos \u017eem\u0117je, tod\u0117l negaliu pritarti Partneryst\u0117s \u012fstatymui<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Raseini\u0173\u2013K\u0117daini\u0173 apygardoje \u012f Seim\u0105 deleguotas socialdemokratas Matas Skamarakas pilietin\u0117s iniciatyvos \u201e\u017dinau, k\u0105 renku\u201c organizuotuose debatuose apie Partneryst\u0117s \u012fstatym\u0105 kalb\u0117jo: \u201eA\u0161 manau, kad mes tikrai gyvename Lietuvoje ir Marijos \u017eem\u0117je. Tai a\u0161 tikrai \u0161iai dienai negaliu pritarti \u0161itam Partneryst\u0117s \u012fstatymui ir nepritarsiu. Jei mes pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117tume, \u017emon\u0117s, kurie gyvena regionuose, yra prie\u0161. A\u0161 bendrauju su \u017emon\u0117m, bendrauju su rink\u0117jais, klausausi j\u0173 nuomon\u0117s ir jeigu pa\u017ei\u016br\u0117tume \u012f balsavim\u0105 Seime, regionuose i\u0161rinkti socialdemokratai nepritaria tam. Niekas ir nesako, kad jie negali gyventi Raseiniuose ir K\u0117dainiuose, a\u0161 manau, kad niekas ir n\u0117ra prie\u0161 juos nusiteik\u0119, jie yra m\u016bs\u0173 visuomen\u0117s dalis, bet yra tam tikros ribos.\u201c Debat\u0173 moderator\u0117s klausiamas, kas tas ribas nustato, M. Skamarakas atsak\u0117: \u201eSeimas.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M. Skamarakas Bendra.lt nurod\u0117, kad jo po\u017ei\u016bris nepasikeit\u0117, o paklaustas, kaip, jo manymu, tur\u0117t\u0173 jaustis Raseiniuose ir K\u0117dainiuose gyvenantys LGBTQ+ asmenys, manantys, kad Seimo narys neatstovauja j\u0173 interes\u0173, politikas ignoravo teisinio reguliavimo svarb\u0105 ir atsak\u0117, kad \u201eLGBTQ+ tur\u0117t\u0173 jaustis visaver\u010diai, nes per paskutin\u012f de\u0161imtmet\u012f gyventoj\u0173 po\u017ei\u016bris pasikeit\u0117 ir atsirado daugiau tolerancijos \u0161iai bendruomenei\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Seimo narys Tomas Vytautas Raskevi\u010dius, vienas i\u0161 Partneryst\u0117s (dabar \u2013 Civilin\u0117s s\u0105jungos) \u012fstatymo iniciatori\u0173, tokius M. Skamarako \u017eod\u017eius vertina kriti\u0161kai \u2013 kaip pataikavim\u0105 tam tikrose visuomen\u0117s grup\u0117se paplitusioms homofobin\u0117ms nuostatoms. \u201eLietuvoje yra apie 560 t\u016bkst. asmen\u0173 iki 49 met\u0173 am\u017eiaus, kurie niekada n\u0117ra sudar\u0119 santuokos. Daliai j\u0173 Civilin\u0117s s\u0105jungos \u012fstatymas b\u016bt\u0173 aktualus ir net neabejoju, kad dalis \u0161i\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 gyvena \u0161alies regionuose\u201c, \u2013 sak\u0117 T. V. Raskevi\u010dius atkreipdamas d\u0117mes\u012f, kad toks \u012fstatymas svarbus ir skirting\u0173 ly\u010di\u0173 poroms.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>\u201eLietuvoje yra apie 560 t\u016bkst. asmen\u0173 iki 49 met\u0173 am\u017eiaus, kurie niekada n\u0117ra sudar\u0119 santuokos. Daliai j\u0173 Civilin\u0117s s\u0105jungos \u012fstatymas b\u016bt\u0173 aktualus ir net neabejoju, kad dalis \u0161i\u0173 \u017emoni\u0173 gyvena \u0161alies regionuose.\u201c<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>\u012e\u017evelgia gr\u0117smi\u0173 nacionaliniam saugumui<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T. V. Raskevi\u010dius akcentavo, kad kalb\u0117dami apie Partneryst\u0117s arba Civilin\u0117s s\u0105jungos \u012fstatym\u0105 kalbame ir apie pamatines \u017emogaus teises, ir apie geresn\u0119 teisin\u0119 apsaug\u0105. \u201eLietuvoje \u0161iuo metu galioja apie 60 \u012fstatym\u0173, kurie \u012ftvirtina \u012fvairias teises ir pareigas partneriams (nuo paramos \u012fsigyjant pirm\u0105j\u012f b\u016bst\u0105 iki vie\u0161\u0173 ir priva\u010di\u0173 interes\u0173 deklaravimo). Kol partneriai negali registruoti civilin\u0117s s\u0105jungos, \u0161ios \u012fstatymuose numatytos garantijos jiems negalioja ir j\u0173 teisin\u0117 apsauga neegzistuoja\u201c, \u2013 apgailestavo T. V. Raskevi\u010dius.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jis atkreip\u0117 d\u0117mes\u012f ir \u012f tai, kad, kaimynin\u0117ms valstyb\u0117ms itin aktyviai sprend\u017eiant \u0161\u012f klausim\u0105, Lietuvai toks neveiksnumas gali tur\u0117ti nacionalinio saugumo padarini\u0173, ypa\u010d u\u017etikrinant \u0161alies gynyb\u0105 su strategini\u0173 partneri\u0173 i\u0161 Vakar\u0173 pagalba. \u201eJuk jie \u012fsipareigoja ginti ne Lietuvos teritorij\u0105, o pa\u010di\u0105 valstybin\u0119 erdv\u0119, kurioje gerbiamos \u017emogaus teis\u0117s ir u\u017etikrinama teisin\u0117 vir\u0161enyb\u0117\u201c, \u2013 Bendra.lt sak\u0117 politikas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>\u201eKol partneriai negali registruoti civilin\u0117s s\u0105jungos, \u012fstatymuose numatytos garantijos jiems negalioja ir j\u0173 teisin\u0117 apsauga neegzistuoja.\u201c<\/p><p><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201eJei politin\u0117s partijos, kurios yra \u012fsira\u0161iusios \u0161\u012f \u012fsipareigojim\u0105 \u012f savo rinkimines programas (Liberal\u0173 s\u0105judis ir Socialdemokratai), vieningai balsuot\u0173 u\u017e Civilin\u0117s s\u0105jungos \u012fstatym\u0105, jis jau seniai b\u016bt\u0173 priimtas. Deja, 4 Liberal\u0173 s\u0105j\u016bd\u017eio frakcijos nariai ir 6 Socialdemokrat\u0173 frakcijos nariai u\u017e \u0161\u012f \u012fstatym\u0105 piktybi\u0161kai nebalsuoja, tokiu b\u016bdu, mano supratimu, apgaudin\u0117dami savo rink\u0117jus\u201c, \u2013 kalb\u0117jo T. V. Raskevi\u010dius ir sak\u0117 es\u0105s \u012fsitikin\u0119s, kad Civilin\u0117s s\u0105jungos \u012fstatymas Lietuvoje bus priimtas artimiausiu metu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p><em>\u0160is darbas parengtas Bendra.lt \u012fgyvendinant Europos S\u0105jungos&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.goethe.de\/prj\/per\/en\/index.html\">PERSPECTIVES<\/a>&nbsp;ir \u201eBendradarbiavimu ir \u012ftraukumu gr\u012fstos kritinio m\u0105stymo laboratorijos\u201c, kuri yra Aktyvi\u0173 pilie\u010di\u0173 fondo (APF), finansuojamo Norvegijos finansinio mechanizmo l\u0117\u0161omis, projektus.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Darbas i\u0161 dalies finansuojamas Europos S\u0105jungos. I\u0161sakyti po\u017ei\u016briai ir nuomon\u0117s yra tik autoriaus (-i\u0173) ir neb\u016btinai atspindi Europos S\u0105jungos ar Europos Komisijos po\u017ei\u016br\u012f ir pozicij\u0105. Nei Europos S\u0105junga, nei pagalb\u0105 teikianti institucija negali b\u016bti laikomos atsakingomis.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img data-opt-id=806261960  decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:auto\/h:auto\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/perspectives-logo.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21822\" width=\"391\" height=\"69\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:782\/h:138\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/perspectives-logo.png 782w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:300\/h:53\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/perspectives-logo.png 300w, https:\/\/mlunklm8xjeu.i.optimole.com\/w:768\/h:136\/q:mauto\/f:best\/https:\/\/www.media4change.co\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/perspectives-logo.png 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 391px) 100vw, 391px\" \/><\/figure>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tado Jank\u016bno ir Arijaus Vasiliauskio de\u0161in\u0117s rankos pir\u0161t\u0105 puo\u0161ia \u017eiedas, o rie\u0161us \u2013 vienodos apyrank\u0117s su A ir T raid\u0117mis. 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